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2016 goals and changes ahead

December 28th, 2015 at 12:31 pm

I've finally had a free moment to sit down and think about the upcoming year.

First of all, the landlord will not be renewing our lease because she has received orders back to the area and will be moving back in her home. Ugh. We were notified this shortly after all of the Christmas decorations went up. We've done our best to keep things "normal" for the kids for the holidays, despite the fact that we have been spending all of our free moments packing, purging, and scouring the internet for appropriate rentals. It has not been a super exciting holiday season.

Secondly, DW and I will be getting separate places when we move. Things have been really tough the last couple years (coincidentally when we officially married), and we feel like we are just running in circles with each other. We love each other, but cannot seem to get along, even though we have been to counseling. Instead of repeating the same behavior over and over again, which is indeed making me crazy, we are going to physically separate. Start with a clean slate, and just go from there. We will be seeing a counselor during the time apart to help us navigate.

DW will be paying a large chunk of our rental, so I can still take care of everything I need to financially. I've found a place a few blocks away so the kids can still take the same bus, attend the same school, etc. I just want to take the focus off of my relationship problems for a bit and enjoy my family.

Financial goals are very simple this year, given the changes that have developed. I'll be satisfied with meeting those goals.

6 Responses to “2016 goals and changes ahead”

  1. VS_ozgirl Says:
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    Very sorry to hear about your upcoming changes, and wishing you the strength to get through them!

  2. CB in the City Says:
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    I'm sorry to hear about your split, but having been through one myself, I know it can really be for the best. Good luck finding a new place and getting settled again.

  3. pjmama Says:
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    Sometimes it's helpful to have that change of place to get a fresh perspective. Best of luck in the year to come!

  4. laura Says:
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    May your 2016 be peaceful and revealing.

  5. alice4now Says:
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    Thanks everyone, I feel better already, just having a decision made.

  6. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    I hope that the changes will go as smoothly as possible. Rough time of year for them for sure.

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